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How your Family Triggers your Stuff and Reveals your Patterns. And how that can be a good thing.

January 21, 2011

Family Triggers your Stuff Have you spent time with family lately? Family—even the ones you like, miss, and get along with famously—have a way of triggering issues. They bring up all your stuff.  Did you notice? “If you think you’re enlightened, go spend a week with your parents.” –Ram Dass I couldn’t agree more. What [...]

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Projection. And Parenting.

September 27, 2010

Projection is fascinating, isn’t it? When I looked up the definition of projection I saw a lot of stuff related to television screens. So I’ll clarify—as if it’s necessary in this blog—that I mean psychological projection. You know, where you attribute your feelings or thoughts to someone else. You assume they think and feel the [...]

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More on Patterns…what I learned from the Horses

August 14, 2010
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What to do with your patterns

July 29, 2010

You’ve uncovered some of your patterns. Now what? Patterns, like fears, are kind of like zoo animals. They don’t respond well to taunting. And they didn’t do anything wrong, so there’s no reason to be mean to them, anyway. Please don’t use them to beat yourself up and don’t get mad at them or blame [...]

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How you do Anything is how you do Everything

July 26, 2010

I’ve been drawn to this expression for a while, not really understanding it intellectually but totally getting it on some intuitive level. It felt right on, even though I didn’t understand what it meant. Does it do anything for you? It’s all about patterns. For example, how do you react when you’re confronted? Do you [...]

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