Comments on: How you do Anything is how you do Everything

By: What was the Big Ass Disaster (BAD) that shaped the rest of your life?

What was the Big Ass Disaster (BAD) that shaped the rest of your life? — Sun, 17 Apr 2011 17:48:19 +0000

[...] know how. And those beliefs keep him swirling in a self-defeating cycle of doubt and fear. His typical pattern is that he steps up to the challenge, and then freaks out in anxiety and uncertainty about his [...]

By: Family triggers your patterns

Family triggers your patterns — Fri, 21 Jan 2011 16:40:08 +0000

[...] are specific and pervasive. How you do anything is how you do everything. Meaning, if you get demanding when you feel your needs aren’t being met, you likely do that at [...]

By: People are Mirrors

People are Mirrors — Wed, 08 Dec 2010 03:32:58 +0000

[...] I have a sense of where these things come from and I know they’re my patterns. I know that patterns are just patterns; they aren’t good or [...]

By: Are your requests really unreasonable?

Are your requests really unreasonable? — Sat, 23 Oct 2010 13:15:41 +0000

[...] the seminar leader saw our pattern, he assigned us homework to complete during one of our dinner breaks. We had to make an [...]

By: Ick, Mindfulness

Ick, Mindfulness — Sat, 09 Oct 2010 21:03:17 +0000

[...] to admit it, mindfulness is turning out to be one of those things producing REAL, LASTING change in busting my patterns. And you might remember, I’ve made a commitment to acting from my values (one of which is sharing [...]

By: What to do with your patterns

What to do with your patterns — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 08:47:29 +0000

[...] uncovered some of your patterns. Now [...]

By: Alicia Rittenhouse

Alicia Rittenhouse — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 02:32:39 +0000

Such a great post Amy! Love the new website too!

By: admin

admin — Wed, 28 Jul 2010 19:19:42 +0000

So true, Tiffany! Isn’t it interesting how your mind constructed the perfect justification for your pattern? Your justification sounds so enlightened on the surface, but when you dug a little deeper you realized it was actually based on fear. Love it! Thanks for sharing!

By: Tiffany

Tiffany — Tue, 27 Jul 2010 20:15:03 +0000

It is interesting that you wrote about discovering patterns in our lives because I recently have discovered one of my own. Rather than confront someone I walk away. My words to a dear friend was it is easier to walk away rather than to convince you why I should be in your life. I have learned it is fear that drives me away, not the fact that they don’t want me there. I am learning about myself and at times do not like what I see…on a positive note though, through the awareness comes the change.